Building Loving Families Through Domestic Adoption

Families Are Forever is an innovative education program designed to prepare adoptive families for the joys and challenges of domestic adoption. In these foundational pre-adoption classes you’ll begin to understand the lives of children who come from a place most likely very different from your own. Rooted in the work of Dr. Karyn Purvis and Trust-Based Relational Intervention (TBRI®), these courses will provide a strong foundation for parenting. You will gain the knowledge and tools necessary to best meet your child’s needs as you welcome them into your home and family.

This bundle totals 16 hours of pre-adoptive training.

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Class 101D:

Preparing for the Journey of Adoption

In this class, we’ll explore Dr. Karyn Purvis’ “7 Insights and 7 Gifts” that you can give your child. We draw heavily from Dr. Purvis’ and her colleague, Dr. David Cross’ work throughout this TBRI®-centered program and their words will inspire you for the journey ahead. This video introduces the challenges of adoption and the ways you can empower your child to trust and heal.

1.5 Hours • $35

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Class 102D

Introduction to Trust-Based Relational Intervention®

This class lays the foundation for most of the Trust-Based Relational Intervention (TBRI®) teachings of this entire program. TBRI is a proven method for enriching the lives of at-risk, vulnerable children, adolescents, and their families. Much of the information that we’ll examine will be drawn from this material, which includes a 40 minute “TBRI® Overview” video.

1.5 Hours • $35

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Class 103D

Domestic Open Adoption

This course shines a light on what the possibilities are for both families and children in an open adoption. We approach this topic with realistic expectations and hope for each member of the triad—first families, adoptive parents, and children. Through the voices of experience, we will step into the stories of several experienced families and do our best to cultivate understanding and create intentional steps forward for adoptive families.

2 Hours • $35

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Class 104D

Understanding Children’s Development

The mystery of how your child becomes the small person you meet begins with their developing brain and body—how does this development affect their emotional and behavioral make up? In this course, we’ll learn from the Karyn Purvis Institute of Child Development’s 90-minute video “Children from Hard Places and the Brain.” This video covers topics such as institutionalization and development, and challenges parents to think about what it means to come from a hard place. This TBRI®-focused teaching will start your exploration of what we hope will be a life-long desire to learn just ‘how and why’ children are who they are, and how we as parents can be an enormous part of their healing. We’ll cover how the brain develops, the impact of trauma and institutionalization and how you can help change your child’s brain development through attachment.

1.75 Hours • $35

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Class 105D

Common Medical Conditions

This course will challenge you to think about your understanding of special needs and learn more about how to consider whether or not you are prepared to adopt a child with a medical challenge. We’ll cover some common medical conditions and we’ll do our best to provide answers to how to parent a child with special needs. You’ll also hear from families who are parenting a child with a special need and how their life has changed. We’ll leave you with some resources to explore as you consider how to make these very important decisions.

2 Hours • $35

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Class 106D

Understanding Attachment

In this class, we will look at what healthy attachment looks like and how your attachment style as a parent can ease your relationship with a child. Understanding attachment is an important part of every relationship—the 90 minute “Attachment—Why It Matters Part 1” video will give you the insights needed to start your own voyage of personal discovery, as well as give you practical TBRI® tools for purposeful connection with your child.

1.5 Hours • $30

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Class 107D

Developing Attachment

The more you know about how to engage your child in the ‘attachment dance,’ the more healing you’re able to bring, and the more peace there can be in your home. This course offers some tools for engaging with a child from a hard place. We’ll also learn about incorporating mindfulness about where your child has come from, where he or she is developmentally, and how to gauge your interaction for healing. This course includes the 60-minute video, “Attachment—Why It Matters Part 2.”

1.75 Hours • $35

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Class 108D

Transracial Adoption: Building Cultural Awareness

We are all the same on the inside, but learning to acknowledge, celebrate, and understand cultural differences but “blending” as you become a conspicuous family is a life-long journey. Take some steps with this course in deepening your sensitivity and opening your heart for those who are different from you. We’ll explore transracial adoption from the point of view of both adoptive parents and transracial adoptees.

1.5 Hours • $35

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Class 109D

Developing an Adoption Profile

Creating an adoption profile, whether a book or video, that highlights how and why your family is prepared to bring an adoptive child into your home, is an important step. In this class, we’ll examine the best practices and examples of adoption profiles that you can use to create your own profile.

1 Hour • $25

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Class 110D

FASD for Adoptive Families

A child with Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorders can display a range of behaviors both challenging and puzzling to parents. From signs and symptoms to diagnoses and treatment strategies, we’ll hear from medical professionals and adoptive families who have experienced, and are currently walking the daily adventure of raising children with FASD.

1.5 Hours • $35

Enroll in Class 110D

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Additional Courses

Class 140

First Family Heritage Search

As you build a trusting, life-long relationship with your adopted child, one of your goals for them is to build a strong and resilient identity. To do this, it’s important to aid in understanding and honoring their birth culture and birth family. What does that look like in international or domestic adoption? Let’s explore together.

2 Hours • $30

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Class 141

Sharing Your Adopted Child’s Story

Preparing for conversations and questions ahead of time and practicing intentional responses to meet the needs of your child, is wise. In this course we’ll cover ways to help your child understand adoption, how to navigate your child’s understanding of their story, and how to know what is “age appropriate.” We’ll also provide practical tools for how to navigate sharing pieces of your child’s adoption story.

2.5 Hours • $40

Enroll in Class 141

Class 201

The Importance of Playful Engagement

In this class, we’ll discuss how to confront challenging moments through playful interaction, and provide practical tools for daily encouragement for children with a background of trauma. This class also explores ways to make play fun for yourself and your child, and why play can often be difficult for adults.

2.0 Hours • $60

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Class 202

Healing and Healthy Touch

Everyone needs physical affection, but it can be difficult to know where to start when or healthy touch has been absent. This course offers practical tools based in TBRI® for how to be affectionate with a child from a hard place, as well as how to recognize and bring healing to sexualized behavior and understand healthy touch. The 40-minute TBRI® video, “Healthy Touch” is included in this course.

2 Hours • $60

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Class 203

Exploring the Sensory World

This course explores the ways in which we experience the world through the 5 senses and different coping mechanisms for sensory overload. In this segment, we’ll also discuss the importance of respect for our own, as well as our children’s bodies. The 90-minute TBRI®-focused video “A Sensory World” is included in this course.

2 Hours • $60

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Class 204

Healing Through Attachment

Through an attachment assessment and detailed narratives, you’ll learn about the 4 types of adult attachment styles and discover your own attachment inclination. Gaining insight into individual strengths and challenges becomes a valuable tool in enhancing attachment to your own child and family.

3 Hours • $90

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Class 205

Your Story: Healing & Attachment

Central to this class is the wisdom we’ll draw from Michael Orlans and Terry Levy and their book Healing Parents: Helping Wounded Children Learn to Love and Trust. Resources and valuable insights are provided to help parents develop their child’s trust and create healthy self-worth in every relationship.

4 Hours • $120

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Class 206

Nurturing Secure Connections

Every parent wonders what is going on in the mind of the child they adore. Actions, behaviors, words, and deeds can baffle the mind of the most caring and rational adult! In this course, we’ll explore the possibility that everything your child does stems from his or her natural desire to learn, explore, and grow, to launch and return to a loving embrace.

2 Hours • $60

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Class 207

Parenting From a Secure Base

The longing to ‘belong’ is central to every heart, including your adoptive child’s. The practical, grace-filled examples of TBRI® principles—empowering, connecting, and correcting—will become the bedrock of the foundation you are building as you parent your child. The 120-minute video “Empowering, Connecting, Correcting” is included in this class.

3 Hours • $90

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Class 208

The Importance of Forming Bonds and Cocooning

In this class, we’ll remind you of the importance of cocooning and forming lasting bonds, what sort of transitional challenges could be ahead, give you some ideas for honoring your child’s origins, and maybe even pique your curiosity about how we want to support you and stay connected as your family grows.

2 Hours • $60

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Class 301

Siblings and Family Integration

Adoption impacts each individual in the family differently. Adding a new family member, and all of the likes, dislikes, passions, and personality that come along with them, can throw the groove off of even the most flexible of families. Having realistic expectations, practicing the possibilities, and remembering what’s already true about your family, helps makes for an easier transition when adding a new brother or sister. This course will address the needs and concerns of both parents and children already in your home.

1.5 Hours • $45

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Class 302

TBRI® for Teens: Connecting with Older Children

Bonding with a teenager or an older child who has spent time in a home, a foster home, and/or an institution unprepared to meet their needs, comes with its own set of challenges. A child that’s beginning to question their adoption can require a whole new list of best practices for parents. In this course we’ll cover the short video “Toxic Stress & the Brain” as well as the two-part series, “TBRI® for Teens.”

2 Hours • $60

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Class 303.1

TBRI®: Empowering, Connecting, Correcting Part I

This course provides the practical examples and role-playing needed for parents to learn how to empower a child to physically and emotionally attune to a loving caregiver. You’ll come away with the tools and encouragement needed to connect with your child in a meaningful, healthy way, while also learning strategies to help a child course-correct when things get hard. The first session of the video “Empowering, Connecting, Correcting” is included in this course.

2 Hours • $60

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Class 303.2

TBRI: Empowering, Connecting, Correcting Part II

This course continues the practical examples and role-playing needed for parents to learn how to empower a child to physically and emotionally attune to a loving caregiver. The second session of the video “Empowering, Connecting, Correcting” is also included in this course.

2 Hours • $60

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Class 304

Facilitating Behavioral Change

Discover the science behind the behaviors of vulnerable children. Dr. Purvis provides dozens of examples of TBRI® strategies to deal with the behaviors of children from hard places. It’s a joy to watch Dr. Purvis bring order, security, and contentment into tough situations with children. The 86-minute video “Facilitating Behavioral Change” is included in this course.

2 Hours • $60

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Class 311

Talking to Kids About Race and Racism

Family should be the place where children feel precious and beloved. It’s also the place where their identity is nurtured and strengthened. When everyone in the family doesn’t ‘match,’ we have the unique opportunity of learning and growing together, and then championing the differences. What you say and (often more importantly) what you don’t say as parents will be foundational to the identity your child takes into their teens, young adulthood, and the rest of their life. This course includes resources from Be the Bridge, a faith-based organization that believes in truth-telling, humility, respect, confession, grace, and justice. It will help you guide the thinking, reading, and conversation around race and racism for your whole family.

3 Hours • $90

Enroll in Class 310

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